It took me a year to decide what I want!!!it ususally is very hard for me to decide fast..and now I can say with 95% confidance interval that I am know what I want in terms of job situation...It has become clear now...I mean my priorites in life..I want a job here in Toronto..not becaus of its wonderful weather!!!!but because of my family and my friends..I think life is too short to be spending it without my loved ones..although I am a very ambitious person but I think down the road when I am 60 years old, I want to be satisfied with my life..I review the senario of going outside of Toronto several times but then at the end I got the conclusion that even if I get alot of money, whats the use if I can't spend it with the people I would rather be with..I guess that analogy is true for the girls who have jobs but get married and move with their husbands to another city..I am begining to realize that this is not the sign of being passive, its the priority issue...would you rather be misrable and have alot of money or have enough money and be happy..I for sure like the second choice..